MARRIAGE

By FRANK

I love the analogy used here...

"MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life".

One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.

Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.

POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere. Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values.

PERCEPTION : In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counseling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship coaches). And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you your size (GOD ALMIGHTY ).

"You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.

Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?

Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions -Where is this shoe made from? (Background) -What's the size (Values) -How much (His/Her interest) -How long will it last (His/Her Character) -Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility) -Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are)

Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars.

Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the sizel from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'.

And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage. God bless us all.

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Mother and Son Face Prison Time for INCEST Relationship

Mother and Son Face Prison Time for INCEST Relationship

#2 Falling In Love
 by FRANK 

New Mexico natives Monica Mares and son Caleb Peterson were separated after she gave birth to him at only 16 years old, after he was adopted by a new family. But after reuniting 19 years later, their relationship took a strange 

Now 19 years old, Caleb and his mother fell in love when they met all these years later. 'The first time I met my son in person I was so happy and excited I gave him a big hug,' Monicasaid.'I went to go pick him up at his dad's house in Texas. He gave me a call and asked me to pick him up, I got butterflies in my stomach.

Incest is illegal in all 50 states, so the madly in love couple could face up to 18 months in prison. 'He is the love of my life and I don't want to lose him,' Monica said. 'My kids love him, my whole family does. Nothing can come between us not courts, or jail, nothing. I have to be with him. When I get out of prison I will move out of Clovis to a state that allows us to be togethe

felt like I met somebody new in my life and I fell in love with him,' she explained. 'At first I told him, "I'm sorry I don't know how you are going to react to this. I'm your mom and you're my son, but I'm falling in love with you". And he said: "You know what I am too. I was scared to let you know". He was falling in love with his mom and I was falling in love with my son. We talked about it and we took off to the park. I said, "Would you ever date your mom?" And he said: "would you ever date your son?" And I said, "Honest truth yes I would".'

Monica is not allowed to see any of her 9 children while awaiting trial, and must have zero contact with Caleb. 'It is every bit worth it,' she said. 'If they lock me up for love then they lock me up. There is no way anybody could pull us apart, and I really do love him. It hurts he is far away. It hurts really bad. I wish I could see him, talk to him, but I can't risk it.'

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8 Amazing Health Benefits of Sleeping Naked

8 Amazing Health Benefits of Sleeping Naked

By FRANK 

Everyone is ashamed of being naked especially in public but after a hard and tiresome day at work, at school or even in the church, the first thing you would want to do when you get home is to strip your clothes off, get naked and head straight to the shower for a warm nice bath.

The notion of getting naked, cutting free from the world stress gives you that conscious comfort you crave. Apart from this comfort of calmness and ease of being, there are many unheard health benefits of being naked while asleep. Of course, it is a matter of choice as some don’t like sleeping without clothes or a covering. Either ways, I will be showing you that sleeping naked is healthy

8 Healthy Reasons Why You Should Sleep Naked

1. It Increases Vitamin D

The scorching rays of the sun is something no one likes and that is why the use of creams, ointments becomes necessary. Wrinkles, skinburns are some few havoc that the sun can wreck on the skin but let’s not forget that this same sun gives vitamin D most especially in the mornings. So being naked at such times and exposure to the morning sun not only improves your well being but increases vitamin D.

2. Nudity Gives Healthy Skin

We all love our clothes to be fitted and tight forgetting that our skins need air to breathe. These fitted clothes might look good but they have their adverse effects on the skin. Tight clothes suffocated the skin, makes the body hot and sweaty, thereby causing rashes, stretch marks, pimples and wrinkles. To reduce the effect of these fitted clothes, it is better to stay naked or sleep naked after wearing such clothes to allow air penetrate within every area of the body which gives smooth skin.

3.No ‘Red’ Marks

Women wearing bra and panty may get red marks on their skin, because of the tight elastic band that is attached with these clothing. Also, sleeping while wearing tight clothes slows down the blood circulation in your body. Hence, it is advised to sleep naked or in loose clothes to improve blood circulation as well as to get rid of red marks, which is great for your health and skin too.

4. It Relaxes the Mind

As funny as it sounds, nudity can treat psychological problems like trauma, low self esteem and the likes. It helps improve blood flow and balances the mind since you are free from all coverings.

5. Minimizes Infection on the Skin

For every clothe worn, there are bacterias, sweat and germs that causes infections when these organisms come in contact with the skin. Personal hygiene entails that you wash after you wear a clothe that has become to sweaty. Being nude especially when asleep, helps to reduce such infections.

6. It helps Increase Fertility

Apart from heat and infections caused by tight clothing, they also restrict the free flow of blood especially to the private part which can lead to low sperm count and other complications. So, if you are naked for a long time, chances of increased fertility is very high.

7. Arouses Sexual Apetite

Sexual desires are at its peak when sleeping naked. It increases the desire to have sexespecially when your partner sees you naked. He or she will not be able to resist you at that moment. Relationship problems can also improve after such meetings.

8. You Sleep Better

For a sound night sleep, it’s best you should sleep naked, especially when the weather is favourable. You feel at ease physically and mentally. You wake up with the right mindset, energy and with the right attitude.

Finally, according to the journal of AmericaDiabetes, sleeping naked can help in weight loss, blood pressure control, getting rid of infections, improved sex drive and many more. it also reduces the risks of diabetes at a very low level. As you Sleep, brown fats are also active, which helps in burning calories, resulting in weight loss

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